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how to deal with stubborn people

Here are some tips on how to deal with stubborn people: 1. Understand Their Perspective:  * Try to see things from their point of view.  * Ask open-ended questions to understand their reasoning.  * Actively listen without interrupting. 2. Choose Your Battles:  * Not every disagreement is worth a fight.  * Pick your battles wisely, focusing on the most important issues. 3. Avoid Direct Confrontation:  * A direct approach can escalate the situation.  * Use a softer, more indirect approach. 4. Find Common Ground:  * Look for areas of agreement, no matter how small.  * Use these as a starting point for further discussion. 5. Use "I" Statements:  * Express your feelings without blaming or accusing.  * For example, instead of saying "You're always so stubborn," say "I feel frustrated when we disagree." 6. Offer Compromise:  * Be willing to meet them halfway.  * A compromise can help break the stalemate. 7. Stay Calm and Patient:...